Sunday, June 21, 2009

A little challenge

I know I am not the only one who has been stuck in something of a sexual rut recently. By rut I mean, it has been few and far between. I know my husband and I are equally horny and frustrated. We talk about it often enough, but rarely want to act on it at the same time. The challenge recently has been making the time for each other. We don't keep the same schedule by any means. I am a night person, often staying up until 2 or 3 in the morning. Sometimes he is getting up when I go to bed and that doesn't always create the best circumstances. So my challenge for myself, and you, is to make sex a priority at least twice this week (and if you're already getting it more than that, do share). I think I am going to start with a sexy handwritten note describing a few things I want to do, left on the bathroom counter. Maybe I will slip it in his wallet, but I don't want it to be forever before he finds it.

Do you have any secrets or tips to share? What works to get him in the sack ASAP?

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Coitus interruptus

It has been quite a while since we've been here, so I hope most of you have been busy and will have something to contribute. As for us, we've been well, interrupted.

Sex has been an adventure in more ways than one recently. Every, and I kid you not, every time we've had sex in the last 3 months something, or someone has interrupted. This doesn't necessarily make for great sex. It has, however, necessitated quickies. We are becoming masters of the mid-afternoon, 10 minute session. Most recently we were on a drive in the desert, little people passed out in their seats. We slipped out and went at it on the tailgate of the truck. It was hot, really hot. It was spur of the moment, with the risk of getting caught by anyone who ambled our way... or happened to have a pair of binoculars. We were still mostly clothed but I loved every minute of it. We got back in the truck, cranked up the air and continued on our way.

So, what are some of your favorite quickies?