Monday, September 8, 2008

Role reversal

No, I am not talking about role play here... but reversal of traditional sexual roles.

Since when have men become the ones to have headaches and feel "too fat" to have sex? How many times has your partner turned you down because he is not in the mood? The more women I talk to the more I see this as a modern trend. Women who are more sexual than thier men. Maybe it is a new revolution of sorts. Maybe the freedom we have to be naughty is proving who the sexual beasts really are! I am SO not that 1950's goody-goody housewife.

ME?? I want to do it all the time. I think about it all the time. I dream about it all the time! I will roll over in the middle of the night and want to jump on and ride him into tomorrow. Of course if I try there are times I hear "but babe, I am too tired". GET OVER IT!!

So, how do you get them past this little hang up? Well... personally, I will usually start off with a blow job. Nothing wakes a man up in a better mood than a hot, wet mouth on his cock. It works 99% of the time but I am always up for some more tricks.

Share... do you have a partner that is always in the mood? Do you have a trick to coax him into doing what you want when he isn't as ready as you are?


C said...

..We can trade husbands..if you'd like.. Hes constantly waving that thing in my face..which doesnt do anything for me sexually! Wine me dine me..(more like foreplay me, lol) dont stuff your junk in my eyes!!!

Bad Kitty said...

I'm with you. I love to be dominated but most often find myself doing the dominating. Don't think I've ever been with a man who will turn down sex OR a blow job at any minute of the day..nuff said.

Sometimes i wonder if there's something wrong with me; i too think about sex ALL the time...I don't always get it, but I think about it. The thing I've learned about men is that it doesn't always mean that you have to parade around in some skimpy little outfit; dressing nice, doing your make-up, and hair, and having confidence in yourself will reel them in life bad kitties at a tuna buffet ( we won't go there ktq).

Mistress K said...

Oh don't get me wrong, its not that I never get any (except when I am pregnant, but thats another topic). I just seem to want it waaaaaaaaay more than he does. I think I am just more forward about it. I will say at any point in the day, out of the blue "I want some dick" lol. Maybe I am too blunt... maybe HE wants to be wined and dined!

So C... what's your man workin' with?? ;-) hehehe