No, I am not talking about role play here... but reversal of traditional sexual roles.
Since when have men become the ones to have headaches and feel "too fat" to have sex? How many times has your partner turned you down because he is not in the mood? The more women I talk to the more I see this as a modern trend. Women who are more sexual than thier men. Maybe it is a new revolution of sorts. Maybe the freedom we have to be naughty is proving who the sexual beasts really are! I am SO not that 1950's goody-goody housewife.
ME?? I want to do it all the time. I think about it all the time. I dream about it all the time! I will roll over in the middle of the night and want to jump on and ride him into tomorrow. Of course if I try there are times I hear "but babe, I am too tired". GET OVER IT!!
So, how do you get them past this little hang up? Well... personally, I will usually start off with a blow job. Nothing wakes a man up in a better mood than a hot, wet mouth on his cock. It works 99% of the time but I am always up for some more tricks.
Share... do you have a partner that is always in the mood? Do you have a trick to coax him into doing what you want when he isn't as ready as you are?